“…let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger” – James 1:19
Oh, how I love sharing with you guys what’s working in my life! I’ve recently been trying to dig deep into my bible studies and relationship with the Lord. In this moment, this is one of my favorite bible verses. I have been thoughtful to apply this in my every day life. This verse is simple, but its so good, and something I easily forget. Especially when my first reaction tends to be to react; specifically when I perceive what is being communicated as negative.
Here’s what I’ve noticed when I’ve made an effort to obey this verse.
Quick to hear. Sometimes I am so ready to speak my peace and validate myself that I don’t really listen. I know the other person is talking and I may hear the words that are being said (particularly the words that offend me and put me in defense mode), but I miss what’s really being said.
Slow to speak. Taking more time to listen has helped me realize that sometimes there is no need for me to speak or what I wanted to speak on is not the real root of what is being said and I need to redirect my response. Being slow to speak gives me time to take apart what is being said and gain a better understanding.
Slow to anger. For me, it’s easy to feel attacked and in return get angry and defensive. Can anyone else can relate?! When taking time to listen and not rushing to speak, I’ve realized that sometimes what is being said is not intended to hurt me, but something I need to take in at that time. Maybe I agree, maybe I disagree, but at the end of the day it is frivolous to get angry at every decision or opinion I don’t agree with. If I disagree, it is easier for me to address with a level-head because I’ve processed what was said and took time to gather my thoughts.
Now with this being said, I don’t always succeed in following through with these steps, but with practice makes perfect. It is crazy how I see conversations go differently when I do follow these steps. I urge y’all to apply James 1:19 in your lives going forward! Let me know if you notice any changes in communication with others!
I’ve got a few other verses and lessons I’ll share my opinion on at some point. What is one of your favorite bible verses and why? Do y’all have tips on individual bible study? How do you dig into the word? I’d love to hear from y’all!
Summer of Gratitude:
Today, I am grateful for my faith and my ever-growing understanding of the Gospel and my connection with the Lord.
“slow to speak” – that’s definitely something I need to be more mindful of. Thanks for the reminder!
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I’m not religious but I definitely see the value in this verse.
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I love this verse!! As a mom of 4 I need to remind myself daily to stay calm and just listen. Thanks for sharing!!
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Yes, I am a mom of 3 and they be testing me! LOL!
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I love this verse! I’m definitely quick to get angry and say whatever. Everyday I try to be better about that for the sake of my girls.
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yes, those kids are watching and they are like little sponges! of course, we stumble, but we have to give our best effort to set good examples. 🙂
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I can not stress how many times I’ve failed “slow to anger”
I am quick to get defensive and attack. It’s been a working mission of mine and I continue to pray on this. Loved this entry. Thank you for sharing!
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Same here! Like quick… we will continue to pray for change together, lol!
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Please! LOL. The anger struggle is real. Great read gal. Wonderful reminder.
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This one fits with my day today. Had an all-out battle while homeschooling my oldest. After I sent her to the bedroom to cool off a bit, I had to go in there and remember to really listen to what she was saying and not get angry. I’m working on the anger a lot this year. It’s getting better! Thanks for sharing this verse.
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It happens! Those little ones know just how to test you. At least you realized.. I feel like the biggest problem is when we fail to realize bc then we cannot correct ourselves.
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Thank you for this wonderful reminder! I often forget just how short-fused and quick-tempered I am! Thank God in heaven He is not finished with me yet!
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Amen!
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For my Bible study I try to read a little in daily devotionals.
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Thank you for the tip!
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Ohhhh I needed to read this! This morning, especially. I’m running on zero sleep and my kids have both asked me approximately 200 questions and I’ve already lost my temper with them. I’ll probably have to tattoo this to the back of my hand today. 🤣 Great post!
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I am happy you are able to implement a verse into positive actions in your life. 💖
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I’m not really religious, it I love how beautifully you put this.
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This is one scripture that I use when I am upset or frustrated.
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This scripture is a great reminder to me during the times I get upset or frustrated.
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This is such a great lesson and reminder for all!
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Favorite Bible verse is Phil. 4:13 “I can do all things through Christ Who strengthens me” because as like many others, I have had struggles in life that only the Lord could bring me through. It is by His strength alone that I have overcome some of the things I have. As far as tips on Bible study.. find someone to be an accountability partner! That has been super vital in my life personally. And not just anyone.. but someone trustworthy who you can share struggles with and can trust.
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That’s a great verse! Also one of my tops… Thank you for the accountability partner tip! I have a few friends I lean on when I have questions or am seeking guidance, that I can ask to take on this role.. 🙂
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Love this! Good word!
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Love this 😍 thank you!
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never forget the Lord
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Beautiful! Thank you for sharing your lovely thoughts on bible verses. I always love hearing how other’s lives are affected by the scriptures.
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I love this verse so much I made an instagram post about it (https://www.instagram.com/p/BkUOcciFgW9/) ❤ Seems so simple. But not, without the Holy Spirit. ❤
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Ahh, I LOVE! ❤️
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A very important lesson for all, regardless of religion.
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Very true!
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We are all a work in progress! There are some things I know but I don’t always do well. I keep trying 🙂
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This is so good! Thanks for sharing this verse. You know I need to practice this, especially with hubby! Just trying to be a better wife over here! Haha!
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Girrrrl. I get the MOST practice having conversations with J, lol!
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That makes two of us!
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Thanks for the great reminder of this verse! I can completely relate to being reactive and not listening to the whole story before responding. It takes so much practice to hold my reactions until I have the full story but it’s so important because we then can have a greater understanding of the other person’s perspective. Thanks so much for sharing this!!
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Yesss! I have found at times I internally chant to myself “quick to listen, slow to speak, quick to listen slow to speak” while listening bc I’m dying to react, lol! It definitely does help with my response though!
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I will definitely try that!! It’s so hard!!
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